Your Questions, Answered
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Please RSVP by May 3rd, 2026.
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We invite you to RSVP online on the RSVP Tab or by mailing in the RSVP card sent with your invitation.
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Mistakes and changes happen! If you need to modify your RSVP, please contact Thomas Otte at (402) 580-1810
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Ceremony: St.John the Apostle Catholic Church at 7601 Vine Street, Lincoln, NE 68505
The Church has a large parking lot with the main/handicapped accessible entrance on the north side. Once you arrive, you'll see signs directing you into the Church for the Order of Celebrating Matrimony Without Mass.
Reception: Scottish Rite Masonic Center at 332 Centennial Mall S, Lincoln, NE 68508
After the ceremony you may make your way to the reception hall. They have a parking garage to the north of the building that can be enter via ‘M’ Street. There is a 50-car parking lot to the east of the building. We request that this lot may be saved for elderly guests and wedding party members.
Any metered parking spots on nearby roads are free to park in after 6:00pm as well.
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The doors to the venue will open one hour ahead of our ceremony time at 4:00pm. We recommend arriving at the ceremony venue at least 30 minutes ahead of the ceremony start time to ensure you have enough time to walk from the parking lot, (chit-chat) and find a seat.
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We've reserved a room block at AmericInn Lincoln South Hotel. Please book your stay by May 14th, 2026 to guarantee a room in our block. Mention the Gamet Otte wedding while booking to receive our reduced rate.
For more information go to our Travel & Accommodations page.
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Our dress code is Funky Formal.
We ask that you wear lightweight suits, in vibrant colors and evening/midi-length statement dresses. White dresses or dresses with white in them are fine with the bride :)
It will be early June in Nebraska so have removable layers to prepare for the (possible) heat. Dancing shoes are welcome and have fun with this!
Remember, personality encouraged.
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Early/Mid June are noted anywhere between 63 degrees and upper 80s.
Ceremony and Reception are both held indoors. Keep water with you just incase and have removable layers for whatever the day may bring!
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The name of every guest invited to attend is listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated.
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There will be children at our wedding with the option of a kid’s meal on the RSVP. We will have a section in our reception venue that will have items to keep them entertained throughout the evening.
If you prefer to have an date night for the evening you are more than welcome to do that as well. The choice is yours!
If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to Thomas Otte at (402) 580-1810
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We'll be serving dry snacks at cocktail hour, followed by a sit-down dinner with a choice of entrée. There'll be a beef, chicken and salmon options catered by Venue Restaurant & Lounge.
We'll also have dessert and after-party snacks for those attending late into the evening.
If you have any dietary restrictions, please make a note in your RSVP.
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We will have select types of kegs, two signature drinks and wine available all night.
Bring cash/card for other drinks you’d love to sip on throughout the evening!
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You can find our complete wedding registry here on our website (and purchase directly from our wish list) under the Registry tab.
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Yes, cash gifts are allowed. Please feel free to use our cash-fund located on our Registry to submit the amount of your choice. Additionally, a card box will be present at the wedding for your convenience.
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This party is not just for us, but to celebrate alongside you! If you would like to honor us with a gift, you can have it delivered to our home at 5345 South 93rd Place, Lincoln, NE 68526. Also, a wedding card box will be at our reception.